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What is the meaning of life?
What is your reason for living?
Living is similar to running.
Running a long path may have its good times and bad times.
Similar to this, life has its good times and bad times.
You are constantly moving ahead when you are running.
"Time is running out."
Yesterday to today, today to tomorrow, we cannot stay in one place.
Moving from elementary to intermediate, and from intermediate to high school, one will eventually move on to the real world.
Right when you were born, you were destined to constantly run.
Also, you must contest with your rivals.
In school, you contest for a higher grade on a test.
In the sports world, you must contest with other athletes.
In a company, you must contest to do better than your associates.
No matter where you go, you must contest with others in that place.
Therefore running is not always fun and has its bad moments.
Having trouble getting a good grade or a good job, people suffer.
In a company, you must worry about having to be laid off or dealing with relationships.
Going through an accident, losing your loved ones, and your company going out of business, are all things that cannot be predicted.
Certainly, life is far from easy. The modern workplace, for instance,
brings its own difficulties and stresses. In her book White-Collar
Sweatshop, Jill Andresky Fraser writes of new difficulties that have faced
American workers during the last two decades, in which layoffs have become
commonplace despite ongoing economic prosperity. She points out
that young workers of today have little job security or guarantee of career
advancement; that in midlife they are torn by the conflicting demands
of work, children, and aging parents; and that in later life, "despite
expectations that they will be rewarded for all their years of hard work.
men and women" are often let go, with bleak prospects for their remaining years.
This rest area is what you view as your goal.
The sorts of goals people usually have in mind are things like getting
accepted into college, mastering a foreign language, winning an athletic
tournament, having a successful romantic relationship, getting a steady
job, building a house, getting rich, winning a Nobel Prize.
But these are in fact mere way stations in life, goals that are only relevant for the time
being and that bear no resemblance to a true life purpose.
For, what are you going to do after mastering a foreign language?
What are you going to do after getting a steady job?
Ultimately, you are able to relax for a moment at the rest area, but you must continue running.
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To Begin with the End in Mind means to start with a clear understanding of your destination. It means to know where you're going so that you better understand where you are now and so that the steps you take are always in the right direction.
It's incredibly easy to get caught up in an activity trap, in the busy-ness of life, to work harder and harder at climbing the ladder of success only to discover it's leaning against the wrong wall. It is possible to be busy -- very busy -- without being very effective.
People often find themselves achieving victories that are empty, successes that have come at the expense of things they suddenly realize were far more valuable to them. People from every walk of life -- doctors, academicians, actors, politicians, business professionals, athletes, and plumbers - often struggle to achieve a higher income, more recognition or a certain degree of professional competence, only to find that their drive to achieve their goal blinded them to the things that really mattered most and now are gone.
How different our lives are when we really know what is deeply important to us, and, keeping that picture in mind, we manage ourselves each day to be and to do what really matters most. If the ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step we take just gets us to the wrong place faster. We may be very busy, we may be very efficient, but we will also be truly effective only when we Begin with the End in Mind.
("THE 7 HABETIS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE" by Stephen R. Covey) |
Busy people are often the most lazy.
We have all heard stories of a businessman who works hard to earn money. He works hard to be a good provider for his wife and children. He spends long hours at the office and brings work home on weekends. One day he comes home to an empty house. His wife has left with the kids. He knew he and his wife had problems, but rather than work to make the relationship strong, he stayed busy at work. Dismayed, his performance at work slips and he loses his job. …
Today, I often meet people who are too busy to take care of their wealth. And there are people too busy to take care of their health. The cause is the same. They're busy, and they stay busy as a way of avoiding something they do not want to face.
("Rich dad, poor dad" by Robert Kiyosaki)
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"If you do not know where you are going , every road will get you nowhere." (Henry Alfred Kissinger) |